Reverse Cycling: Why Babies Feed More at Night

If your baby seems to snack all day, then feeds frequently overnight, you are not imagining it. Reverse cycling is a very common pattern where a baby takes more of their calories at night and less during the day.

It can feel exhausting because it often comes with frequent night waking, short stretches of sleep, and a baby who genuinely expects feeds overnight. The good news is that reverse cycling is usually very fixable once you understand why it is happening and what is keeping it going.

This guide explains what reverse cycling is, why it happens, what it can look like at different ages, and how to gently shift feeds back to the day.

What is reverse cycling?

Reverse cycling usually happens for a combination of reasons.

Distracted daytime feeding

Around 3 to 6 months, many babies become much more alert and easily distracted. They feed for shorter periods, pop on and off, or take smaller bottles because they would rather look around.

Then overnight, when it is quiet and dark, they feed more fully, which reinforces the night feeding pattern.

This often overlaps with the
4 month sleep regression and changing sleep cycles, when babies start waking more often between sleep cycles.

Feeding to resettle overnight

When babies wake overnight, feeding is often the quickest way back to sleep. Over time, a baby can learn that waking equals feeding, even if hunger is not always the original cause.

This can sit alongside
Why Is My Baby Waking So Frequently at Night?, because frequent waking often has more than one driver.

Sleep pressure and routine mismatch

If naps and awake windows are slightly off, babies can wake more frequently overnight. If feeds are offered at each wake, reverse cycling can build quickly.

If this might be part of your baby’s pattern, it can help to review
When to Increase Awake Windows (And When Not To) and Undertired vs Overtired: How to Tell the Difference.

Developmental stages and separation needs

Some babies increase night feeds during stages of emotional development, especially when
separation anxiety increases. Feeding becomes both nutrition and reassurance.

Illness or teething

During illness or discomfort, babies may feed more overnight because sucking is soothing. This is normal in the short term, but if the pattern continues after recovery it can become a longer term reverse cycling habit.

You may find
Illness and Sleep: Supporting Your Child Through Disruption and Teething and Sleep: What to Expect helpful if this is relevant right now.

What does reverse cycling look like?

Common signs include:

  • frequent overnight waking with feeds at most wakes

  • short or inconsistent daytime feeds

  • baby seems genuinely hungry overnight

  • longer feeds overnight than during the day

  • a baby who settles quickly with milk but wakes again soon after

  • naps may be short due to overall sleep disruption and catnapping can increase

If you are unsure whether the waking is mostly hunger or mostly sleep related, start with Why Is My Baby Waking So Frequently at Night? and look at the full 24 hour picture.

Is reverse cycling “normal”?

Reverse cycling is common, but it is not always sustainable for families.

Some babies still need overnight feeds, especially younger babies, and that is completely normal. The key difference is whether feeds are appropriate for age and genuinely driven by hunger, or whether most wakes are being reinforced with feeding even when sleep pressure or settling patterns are the bigger driver.

If your baby is under 6 months, night feeds can still be developmentally normal. If your baby is older and waking frequently for feeds, reverse cycling is much more likely.

How to reduce reverse cycling gently

The goal is not to stop all night feeds instantly. The goal is to shift calories back to the day in a gradual and realistic way.

1. Strengthen daytime feeding

This is always step one.

Ways to support day feeds:

  • feed in a calm low distraction space

  • offer feeds more regularly rather than waiting for overt hunger

  • consider offering a top up feed before naps if day feeds are very short

  • for bottle fed babies, ensure teat flow and feeding pace are appropriate

If you are in the newborn stage, also check Creating a Newborn Night Routine That Supports Sleep and What to Expect With Newborn Sleep, because frequent feeding can be very normal early on.

2. Separate feeding from falling asleep at bedtime if possible

If milk is the only way your baby falls asleep, they are more likely to seek it at every overnight wake.

You do not need to remove feeds completely, but it helps to build a clear bedtime routine that ends with sleep cues beyond feeding.

For structure, see
Creating a Night Routine That Supports Sleep.

3. Choose one overnight feed to reduce first

If your baby is waking many times, pick one feed to gently reduce first. Keep the most valuable or most consistent feed for last.

Once one feed reduces, the rest often become easier.

4. Use a consistent settling response between feeds

If feeds are offered at every wake, the pattern continues.

When you know your baby has been fed recently, use your chosen settling approach instead of feeding again. Consistency matters more than intensity.

If you are unsure where to start with settling approaches, the
5–24 Month Infant Course gives a step by step framework that matches your baby’s age and current sleep associations.

5. Check routines and sleep pressure

Reverse cycling rarely exists in isolation.

If your baby is overtired, undertired, or naps are not well aligned, they may wake more, which creates more opportunities to feed overnight.

Use your age specific routine as your baseline and adjust if needed. If naps are short or fragmented,
catnapping is often part of the picture.

How long does it take to shift?

If you are consistent, many families see improvement within one to two weeks. For some babies it takes longer, especially if reverse cycling has been happening for months or if there are multiple factors at play like separation anxiety, illness recovery, or a routine mismatch.


Progress often looks like:

  • longer stretches at the start of the night

  • fewer feeds overnight

  • larger feeds during the day

  • easier resettling between sleep cycles

Looking ahead

Reverse cycling can feel relentless, but it is one of the most common patterns I see, and it is absolutely workable with the right plan. Most babies are capable of shifting calories back to the day once daytime feeding improves and overnight waking is supported more intentionally.

The
5–24 Month Infant Course supports you through reverse cycling, night waking, routines, awake windows, regressions, and nap transitions with age specific guidance and practical steps you can follow straight away.

If your baby is moving into toddlerhood and sleep challenges shift toward boundaries, fears, and bedtime resistance, the
Infant and Toddler Bundle supports the longer journey with strategies that grow with your child.

Certified paediatric sleep consultant Eva Beke with her children.

Eva Beke

Certified Paediatric Sleep Consultant

Founder The Sleepy Little Bubs

I’m a certified paediatric sleep consultant and the founder of The Sleepy Little Bubs. I support families through baby and toddler sleep with practical, evidence-based guidance that considers the whole picture - sleep, development, routines, feeding, and family dynamics.

My approach is realistic, supportive, and designed to evolve as your child grows, so you’re not just getting help for today, but confidence moving forward.

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